Camelon archer Martin Strang prepares for Transplant Games and meeting with his donor’s family
He was on holiday in Cornwall with his parents Sally and Graham and wee brother Stephen when the accident occurred, two days short of his 17th birthday.
Just hours after his death, his parents decided to honour Toby’s wishes and donate his organs.
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Among their number was Martin Strang, from Camelon, who received a kidney and pancreas.
And the 46-year-old is preparing to thank Toby’s family for their incredible gift in person at the 2019 British Transplant Games in Newport in July.
Martin took up archery in 2015 and decided to honour Toby by competing in the 2016 British Transplant Games in North Lanarkshire, where he won a gold medal.
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Hide AdHe has since gone on to win countless trophies and medals, most recently at the British Transplant Games in Birmingham in August 2018, when he won silver in archery for his age group.
He has also been selected for Team GB at the World Transplant Games in Newcastle this August.
It’s not a bad track record for someone who freely admits to not having a competitive bone in his body, prior to his transplant.
And Martin attributes his success to Toby.
Indeed, he wears armguards and a quiver belt in his donor’s honour at every competitive match.
He said: “Every time I pick up a bow, it’s because of Toby.
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Hide Ad“I wouldn’t be sitting here talking to you or competing with Team GB had it not been for him.
“It is only possible because he signed the organ donor register and made his wishes known to his family.
“It’s difficult to explain just how much his incredible gift has meant to me.”
Martin was placed on the transplant list in April 2008 and spent four years on dialysis before receiving the call he had long waited for.
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Within three months of the transplant, he started his new job as an insurance broker and attended the Star Trek exhibition at the ExCeL Arena in London.
He also enjoyed his first holiday in four years, visiting his sister in Italy.
And it was following that holiday that Martin decided to send a thank you letter to Toby’s family.
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Hide AdWhen he received a letter from them six months later, he discovered some very strange coincidences.
“We’d visited Lake Garda when we were in Italy and that was one of the last places Toby visited,” he said.
“I got a taste for bagels and coffee when I was there, which Toby loved and I bought a motorbike, which he had also wanted.”
Martin wrote to the family, via the transplant co-ordinator, several times; they were delighted to hear that he was living life to the full.
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Hide AdThen, in 2017 he attended a donor families memorial service where he hoped to meet them.
Sadly, it wasn’t to be but fate played a part in the seating arrangements.
“It turned out that one of the men at the table knew Toby’s family,” he said.